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As we expand our vocabulary, do we become more critical and self-opinionated? Or do we become more needy and truthful?
'My First Book of Words', would tell you the literal meanings of words. What an apple is. What a happy face looks like. So, the classic sentence in pre-school, 'I friend you.' 'I don't friend you anymore'. Friends - a literal word, which would probably mean, i am talking to you and playing with you. Acquisition of adjectives makes life a bit more complicated. You group your friends, still probably a literal meaning, whether they are best, good, ok, blah blah... a la autograph book. Then, you start to develop an identity, and start to question intentions. Does 'friend' mean the same thing anymore? Has it remained a word to define loose, vague relationships, and for something more concrete, you use a separate word? Or have you upped the status of 'friend' to something concrete, and used another word for looser relationships. I belong to the latter.
'Friend' is a big word. That's why the noun 'friendship' exists. Kin-ship. Relation-ship. It needs to be something stronger than an occasional 'Hi, Bye.' Wouldn't that just be acquaintances? Something i've been thinking about. Probably doesn't apply to social birds.
As we expand our vocabulary, do we become more critical and self-opinionated? Or do we become more needy and truthful?
'My First Book of Words', would tell you the literal meanings of words. What an apple is. What a happy face looks like. So, the classic sentence in pre-school, 'I friend you.' 'I don't friend you anymore'. Friends - a literal word, which would probably mean, i am talking to you and playing with you. Acquisition of adjectives makes life a bit more complicated. You group your friends, still probably a literal meaning, whether they are best, good, ok, blah blah... a la autograph book. Then, you start to develop an identity, and start to question intentions. Does 'friend' mean the same thing anymore? Has it remained a word to define loose, vague relationships, and for something more concrete, you use a separate word? Or have you upped the status of 'friend' to something concrete, and used another word for looser relationships. I belong to the latter.
'Friend' is a big word. That's why the noun 'friendship' exists. Kin-ship. Relation-ship. It needs to be something stronger than an occasional 'Hi, Bye.' Wouldn't that just be acquaintances? Something i've been thinking about. Probably doesn't apply to social birds.
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